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The Bloom Report v42 - The Bloom Insider - When Chaos Becomes A Comfort

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From The Desk of Jeneba Wint - What It Means When Chaos Feels Comfortable At Work

You could be addicted to toxic work environments
I’m writing today to speak directly to something many of you may feel, but few speak about: the magnetic pull toward toxic workspaces. The ones where chaos, drama, burnout, gaslighting, become so normalized it almost feels like safety. It’s not just about what you do, sometimes it’s about what you believe about what role you deserve, what value you hold, and what peace even means.

Let me hold your hand when I say this……………

When you find yourself in a work environment that’s perpetually hectic, draining, stressful, and unstable — and yet you resist change, even long for it it often reveals more than just tolerance. It reveals a mindset shaped by identity, value, and safety:

Signal

What It Suggests

Overfunctioning — always fixing, mediating, rescuing

Your worth feels tied to solving problems. You believe: “I only matter when something is broken and I put a cape on to fix it.”

Restlessness with peace — calm feels unsafe or unearned

You’ve internalized stress as a way to prove you’re alive or valuable. Or perhaps calm has always been denied in early life.

Productivity as identity — doing = being

You may be caught in “trauma productivity,” feeling guilty for rest, seeing rest as weakness.

Control via chaos — being indispensable

If things depend on you, you feel you can’t be discarded. It’s an armor against feeling powerless elsewhere.

Scarcity script — “there’s nowhere better”

Maybe you’ve never experienced high-functioning safety. So, you settle. Or you believe you don’t deserve more.

Martyrdom as recognition — suffering earns you ‘seen’

Often, only in a crisis you receive thanks or attention. So you chase the moments of crisis.

The Cost of Staying

This isn’t just about stress or burnout (though those are very real). It’s about:

  • Identity wear and tear: When your “rescue” role becomes who you are, you lose track of who you might be beyond caretaking.

  • Opportunity loss: You drain your energy so much in one place that you may not have what it takes to build or step into healthier, higher-leverage, higher-value work.

  • Relationship damage: Chaos often comes with emotions on edge, with others’ needs becoming emergencies. This can erode trust, boundaries, and even long-term connections.

  • Potential plateau: In chaotic systems, you become the firefighter, not the architect. Hard to scale, innovate, or lead from a grounded place when fire drills are your norm.

What a Shift Could Look Like

Here’s how you move out of addiction into alignment—where you’re needed because you bring clarity, vision, peace, not just because you fix messes and fight fires.

  1. Re-author your value story

    Write (or speak) aloud: “My value isn’t in my ability to solve crises. My value is in bringing sustainable systems, clarity, and embodied leadership.” Reframe what being needed means.

  2. Rebuild your nervous system’s baseline

    Practice stillness, boundaries, routines. Start small: a day without checking email, a weekend with minimal obligations. Let your body relearn rest.

  3. Design roles (or choose environments) with built‑in safety & structure

    Seek or create work that has predictable rhythms, clear expectations, feedback loops. Environments where responsibility is shared and systems are valued.

  4. Practice being seen outside the drama

    Share wins, share ideas, share when you lead not because of crisis, but because of vision. Visibility doesn’t require chaos.

  5. Shift from scarcity to abundance mindset

    Internalize: there are workplaces that work well. There are ways you can be needed and respected and peaceful. Seek them. Make choices assuming worthiness, not just necessity.

Your Role in This Shift

As someone who teaches people to build personal brands from their zone of genius, and redesign their self-concept, here is what I want you to ask yourself:

  • What stories about my value do I keep repeating—ones that center around being needed in crisis?

  • What boundaries do I need to set to test life outside of chaos?

  • Where in my brand could I highlight peace, healthy structures, sustainable leadership, not just resilience under fire?

Bloom Brand Tip

Reclaim needed as something you are, not something you earn by extinguishing fires. Start with one way this week to show up as peace‑maker and peace bringer, not trouble‑fixer.

If you sense you've been equating drama with significance, or chaos with belonging, know this: your brilliance is not bound to breakdowns. The real power is found in clarity, in leading from a place where peace, purpose, and presence converge. Those are the rooms you were meant to occupy. 

Sis, if you’re feeling like the job market’s acting funny and the workplace vibe is shifting, you’re not wrong.

Let's talk about what's really happening in these corporate streets because the landscape is shifting faster than your favorite playlist, and I need you two steps ahead of the game, not caught off guard by it.

The Labor Market is Giving Mixed Signals (But We're Reading Between the Lines)

First up: unemployment claims just hit their highest point in four years. Now before you start spiraling, let me give you the real tea. The job market isn't crashing—it's . recalibrating. And for us as Black women, this means we need to be more strategic than ever about where we plant our professional seeds.

Companies are posting fewer jobs (down to 7.1M openings), but they're also being more intentional about who they hire.

Translation? Mass applications are out. Targeted, value-driven positioning is in.

Labor Market: Cooling Off or Just Catching Its Breath?

  • Unemployment Watch: Jobless claims just hit their highest in 4 years at 263,000. Some of that’s due to Texas flooding, but experts say it may be the first tremor in a slowing economy.

    Translation: The job market ain’t crashing, but it is putting on a sweater.

  • Openings Shrinking: Job postings dropped to just over 7.1M (the lowest in 10 months). Hiring is still happening, but it’s less of a free-for-all.

    Be Strategic: If you’re job-hunting, focus on aligned offers over mass applications. Think sniper, not shotgun.

  • Retail & Consumer Services Cooling: Sectors tied to everyday spending and interest rates (think: retail, travel, beauty) are softening.

    Black women in these industries: Prepare to pivot and upskill. Your brilliance is portable.

If you're in retail, beauty, or consumer services, pay extra attention. These sectors are cooling off, but your brilliance doesn't have to. Your skills are portable, sis. Start thinking about how to package what you know for industries that are still growing.

The Hybrid Game is Still the Name of the Game

Here's what the data is telling us: hybrid work dropped slightly (from 55% to 51%), but don't let that fool you. Companies are still figuring out their hybrid strategies, and frankly, most of them are doing it wrong.

Real talk: The organizations getting hybrid right are the ones investing in people and culture, not just policies. They're creating experiences that make you want to show up in person because it adds value to your day, not because Karen from HR sent a passive-aggressive email about "collaboration."

  • Robert Half reports: Nearly 1 in 4 job postings are hybrid now. Fully in-office roles are down.

    Read between the lines: Hybrid is the new power position. It’s flexible and visible.

As Microsoft and other big players tighten their return-to-office policies, remember this: Your presence is a gift, not a given. If they want you back in that office, they better make it worth your time, your gas money, and your mental energy. Period.

AI Anxiety is Real, But So is AI Opportunity

Let's address the elephant in the room: 95% of AI pilots are failing. You know why? Because companies are treating AI like a magic wand instead of a tool that requires strategy, training, and yes—human intelligence.

Here's your competitive edge: while everyone else is worried about AI taking their jobs, you can be the person who understands how to work with AI to amplify your impact. The organizations that will win are the ones that invest in teaching their people how to be AI-enhanced, not AI-replaced.

Your move: Start learning how AI can make you more efficient at what you already do brilliantly. Don't try to become a tech expert overnight—just become AI-curious.

The Transparency Train Has Left the Station

Massachusetts just joined 15+ other states requiring salary transparency in job postings. We love to see it, but here's what this really means for you:

The power dynamic is shifting. Companies can no longer hide behind vague salary ranges or lowball you because they think you don't know better. But with great transparency comes great responsibility—you need to know your worth and be ready to articulate it.

Job Hugging vs. The Boomerang Trap

I'm seeing two concerning trends that I need to call out:

Job Hugging: People clinging to positions they've outgrown because the market feels uncertain. Sis, fear-based decision making will keep you small. Yes, be strategic, but don't let anxiety masquerade as wisdom.

The Boomerang Trap: Companies reaching out to former employees with offers that sound like "Welcome back!" but feel like "Welcome back...for less." Don't let nostalgia cloud your judgment. If they want you back, they need to meet or exceed where you've grown since you left.

As Quartz’s Catherine Baab-Muguira notes, nostalgia doesn’t pay like it used to. “Welcome back” now comes with smaller titles, slimmer benefits, and the subtle pressure to accept less because AI or “tight budgets” are the new excuses.

Source: Quartz via Catherine Baab-Muguira

🎥 And as CNN reported, many professionals are “job hugging” out of fear, uncertainty, or the invisible weight of survival-mode thinking.

Source: CNN, Job Hugging Trend Video – Sept 2025

Your Strategic Playbook for What's Next

1. Build Your Portfolio Career Mindset: Stop thinking employee vs. entrepreneur. Start thinking architect of your own value. Your future might include full-time work, consulting, speaking, creating all working together to build wealth and fulfillment.

2. Invest in Your Personal Brand Equity: Your reputation, your network, your expertise—these are assets that no economic downturn can touch. Make sure people know what you're excellent at and how you solve problems.

3. Practice Skills-Based Positioning: Companies are moving away from degree requirements and toward "what can you actually do?" This is your moment to shine. Document your wins, quantify your impact, and get comfortable talking about your superpowers.

4. Find Your Future-Forward Community: Surround yourself with people who are building, not just surviving. The energy you keep will determine the opportunities you attract.

The Bottom Line

What’s Coming Next (and What You Should Do About It)

  • The job market is shifting. It’s not broken—it’s being rebuilt.

  • Hybrid work is the compromise model—flexibility with structure.

  • AI isn’t magic. It works when people do.

  • Benefits that see the whole human will define employer brands.

  • Skills + transparency + care = the new currency of work.

We're living in a career climate that requires clarity over confusion, strategy over survival mode, and abundance mindset over scarcity thinking. The companies that will thrive are the ones that see their people as whole humans worthy of growth, flexibility, and fair compensation.

And the professionals who will thrive? The ones who refuse to shrink themselves to fit into systems that weren't designed for their brilliance in the first place.

Your career is not happening to you—it's being created by you. You own your career, not your manager.

Every choice you make, every boundary you set, every value you refuse to compromise on is shaping not just your professional future, but the future of work itself.

  • The job market is shifting. It’s not broken—it’s being rebuilt.

  • Hybrid work is the compromise model—flexibility with structure.

  • AI isn’t magic. It works when people do.

  • Benefits that see the whole human will define employer brands.

  • Skills + transparency + care = the new currency of work.

Why This Matters?

This trend reveals a misalignment of power, trust, and value on both sides of the labor equation:

Workers

Employers

Feeling stuck or afraid to leap

Trying to fill seats cheaply

Watching AI threaten creative/strategic roles

Citing “efficiency” and budget cuts

Losing leverage in negotiation

Replacing loyalty with cost-cutting

Boomerang jobs used to feel like validation. Now they often feel like a rollback.

📊 My Strategist Analysis

1. This is a disguised wage regression.

Rehiring people at lower rates for the same work devalues not only their prior contributions — it also sets a dangerous precedent for future compensation models.

🔍 MIT Sloan research suggests over 60% of white-collar workers fear downward mobility due to AI’s rise and companies’ “skills compression” logic.

(Source: MIT Sloan Management Review, 2025)

2. Workers are quietly internalizing scarcity.

When people cling to jobs they dislike, it’s a sign of market fragility. This leads to suppressed creativity, underperformance, and burnout masked as gratitude.

3. AI is becoming the new budget scapegoat.

Instead of using AI to elevate human work, some employers are using it to justify pay cuts and job consolidation. This narrative harms both innovation and morale.

🌸 My Future-of-Work Recommendations

For Workers (especially Black + BIPOC Professionals):

✨ Don’t “hug” the job—hug your value.

  • Keep your career documents, portfolios, and receipts updated.

  • Build a “just in case” job search strategy — quietly, confidently, proactively.

  • Invest in personal branding and portfolio-building outside your 9-to-5.

  • Join future-forward communities that encourage leap-taking, not fear-holding.

For Employers:

✨ Boomerang hiring is a brand strategy treat it like one.

  • Don’t insult former employees with rollback offers. It damages trust and brand equity.

  • Use boomerang hires to elevate institutional knowledge, not exploit it.

  • Create re-onboarding experiences that reflect mutual growth, not regression.

Embrace the Portfolio Career Path

Boomerangs and job huggers are signals — not solutions. The real future of work lies in portfolio careers that blend full-time, freelance, creative, advisory, and ownership roles into one fluid ecosystem.

If employers won’t recognize your range, you must. The most powerful position in the future economy isn’t “employee” — it’s “architect of your own value.

Let go of the job title as identity. The real flex in 2025 and beyond is your skills stack, your personal brand equity, and your ability to adapt not shrink in the face of change.

Boomerangs don’t bounce back the same, and job hugging won’t protect you from burnout. But building a brand, diversifying your income, and designing a career you don’t need to escape? That’s legacy work.

We are living in a career climate that requires clarity, courage, and customization. If you're building a brand, leading a team, or navigating your next move, remember:

Until We Bloom Again

Jeneba Wint

Future of Work Researcher & Workforce Intelligence Strategist

🧠💐 Bloom Futures Lab | Bloomology

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